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Deep Knowing by Jen Garrido, 2022, acrylic on canvas, 52 x 48"
I'm feeling a little burnt out
This year has felt like a closed loop of circular thinking. It’s like my head is in an orbit I can’t escape. I’m not depressed, but my headspace is spinning. These days (most days), I feel burnt out. Ups & downs are part of my process, so this feeling isn’t so new but I am just so tired of it.
My burnout has a backstory
Let's travel back to the early 2000s. I had just graduated from grad school & was teaching art at a small, private K-8th school. It was an amazing job. Or, it would have been had I loved teaching. I didn’t love teaching, but oddly enough I always thought I’d teach. During those same years I taught, I also waited tables & was an affiliate artist at the Headlands Center for the Arts where I was just beginning my art career.
After several years of juggling jobs, my art career began to unfold. At 30, I decided to let go of teaching because if I didn’t try to do art full time, would I ever? It was the right choice. I think. My career was up & running until 2008 arrived & the economy crashed. Suddenly, the relationships I had worked so hard to build ended due to one thing or another. So, I decided to create Jenny Pennywood as a way to explore textile design. Fast forward to today & it’s as though I’ve been living a double life & hustling ever since the crash.
My deep desire to recenter
Recently, it dawned on me that for 20 years & counting (essentially my entire adult life), I’ve been incredibly persistent in setting goals & assigning myself tasks with the simple intent of getting somewhere. In many ways, this has been an organic unfolding marked by key moments in time where things seemed to be coming together. But if I’m being honest, I’ve mostly struggled along the way.
Fast forward to today & it’s 2023. Here I sit, drowned in a deep desire to recenter. But, what’s next?
I love the work I do, I love Jenny Pennywood & I certainly love painting. In fact, I always want to paint more. I’m cool with the struggle in some ways, but I would rather it be a side dish rather than the main course.
What's on the other side of the struggle?
Have you ever been stuck? How did you climb out? What was your key turning point? Is there a version of life on the other side of the struggle, where there’s still struggle, but not so much? Comment below & share your story, struggle, words of wisdom, best advice, tools, habits or something else altogether that you think I should know. Whatever it is, I want to hear about it. Thank you for caring. XO, Jen
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1. Make your bed
2. Eat breakfast – I have oatmeal with chia seeds topped with fruit and pumpkin seeds and sometimes yogurt etc and it balances out my blood sugar so that I don’t get spun out and it helps with my mental clarity!
3. Drink water
I can’t function without coffee in the morning ( if you can bravo to you ) but I drink at least 16 oz of water between cups of coffee.
Achievable small goals can help with our mindset and sometimes that is what you need to move forward :)
I’m a therapist so I really struggle with admitting that I feel this too. Is it an age thing? Get to your 40’s and these thoughts/refections pop up? A friend suggested making a calm & joy list and just reading it does something really positive. I have no answers but like that we aren’t laying down and letting life just happen. We are questioning, exploring, trying, accepting the love and support.
As a graphic designer I feel you on this endless gravitron of creating and planning and dreaming but never knowing where to go next or when you’ll be content :) It feels weighty and impossible to get out of your own head.
This is not anything groundbreaking, but the best advice I have is to listen to this commencement speech by Neil Gaiman to a graduating art class in 2012. It helps me see outside myself when I feel my brain moving in a thousand different directions:
https://youtu.be/ikAb-NYkseI
There’s too much that resonates for me to summarize it all, lol, but two of his big takeaways that always help me to hear are:
1. Do what only you can do best, make good art.
2. Make sure you pause and enjoy the ride.
Listening helps reground me a bit and reframe the way I think about my career as an artist. Your work is beautiful! xo
It’s ok to go slow. To rest. Journaling can be an incredible tool to resee your world and surroundings. To look for patterns to follow. To Find gratitude. To identify limiting beliefs.
If all else fails, remember that circles and cycles are a fundamental law of nature. Tidal streams, orbiting planets, rings on a tree. We’re meant to move in circles. In cycles. You’re beginning a new one!
Jen, I feel you so much with all of this! I was struggling really hard with that mind spiral about a year ago, and I think being a mom and a worker and peri-menopausal during a pandemic is just the perfect storm for getting pulled out of our center. Here is what I found that really helped. First is checking in on hormones and doing things to try to balance that out…look into primrose oil, maca, exercise, and a huge dose of self compassion. Second and probably what really helped me find my way back to more grounded and centered-ness is sticking to a morning routine. Check out the Miracle Morning book but any version of it will work – hot water with lemon, gratitude journaling, writing down how you visualize your day going, reading a bit of a meditation or self help book, a few light stretches, taking a walk, and then just sitting in silence for as long as you are able. I’m not a big morning person but I realized that taking this time for ME in the morning before anyone else has needs is a great foundation for the day. Mindfulness meditation seriously changed my life and my anxiety! I mean, there are still days that I feel off but it’s helped a LOT. I loved what you said about making the angst the side dish instead of the main meal…we have to make friends with all our feelings and not resist them, but it’s possible to get a further-out perspective where we don’t feel so in the center of the swirl. Sending love!
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